Practice safe phone sex – tips for healthy phone fun from Mistress Iris

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This is not a particularly sexy blog post, but it might be valuable, so please take the time to read through the following four points.  Lately, I have had several experiences with clients making unwise phone sex choices and I have been hearing nightmare stories from other Mistresses of even wilder phone sex problems.  So I want to start this new blog with some clear information for phone sex connoisseurs.  Some tips will be more helpful than others to different callers, since you are such a diverse group.  But you will find something useful here whether you are kinky or vanilla, experienced or brand new to this form of sexual fun.

 

Intelligent creative phone sex Domme, Mistress Iris

 

Be physically safe in your phone sex play

I am a big fan of light pain play, but I never want my clients to experience significant physical harm.  Listen to your body.  Use lube when exploring internally.  And even then, do not force giant things into tiny places.  Do not beat body parts beyond the point of light bruising.  If you are contorting yourself in any way, make sure you have solid footing.  If we are exploring restraints, make sure all supplies are within easy reach so you are not overextending yourself.  And this is not a safety thing, but it is physical, keep old towels around to protect furniture if we get messy.  (I like to get messy.)

 

Be emotionally safe as you bond with your Mistress

A deep personal connection makes phone sex hotter.  And I am always authentic on our calls.  I am real.  And I really care about my clients.  But I work at LDW.  It is not my dating service.  I will NEVER agree to meet you.  No matter how much I adore you.  So please remember the limits of our connection.  I hate to see clients get emotionally hurt.  You can hope to become my favorite, most beloved client.  But please limit yourself to those aspirations.  If you find yourself thinking about moving to Minnesota or you are getting upset that I spend time with other clients and you are not happy to see me busy and thriving, those are signs you may have unrealistic views of what we share.  Protect yourself emotionally, please.  I love to share intimately with my phone sex clients and to get to know you well and I am most comfortable doing that when I know you are making wise emotional choices.

 

Be financially safe as you indulge in erotic phone sessions

Never put yourself at financial risk to talk to me.  And never give your financial information to any Mistress anywhere ever.  I want you to indulge in fabulous phone sex with me as often as you can comfortably afford to do so.  But watching you crumble in financial ruin is no good for either of us.  So please know your limits.  And never delude yourself that calling me for a million hours is some wonderful gift you are giving me at your expense.  There will always be a steady stream of horny men who appreciate a smart filthy woman.  I am grateful for the time we spend together, but I am confident I will continue to be successful in this career no matter how many hours you spend with me and I prefer to build a relationship with you over time, versus you overindulging and then disappearing.

 

And finally, consider your partner’s safety as well

Do not ask your Mistress to talk about topics you know are off-limits and risk her career for you.  Do not ask her to take emotional risks for you that are not in her best interest.  And do not ask your Mistress to spend a million hours emailing and IMing you without compensation.  Some of you have recently lamented to me that Mistresses you enjoyed have left this line of work.  Often they leave because they cannot afford to stay.  They had clients who spent an hour on the phone with them each month and wanted 4 hours of her time weekly sending assignments and IMing and that is just not economically feasible.  Consider your partner’s physical, emotional and financial safety as well as your own and you with both share some amazing erotic times together.

 

I have the most fabulous phone sex clients anywhere.  I love my job.  And I am having a wonderful time getting to know you all and sharing hot times with you.  Promise me you will keep it safe so we can just relax and enjoy.  :)

If you ever have any questions about safe phone sex practices, you can email me any time.  Or stop by HelpMyCock.com, our live help desk, where smart fun women are waiting to answer your questions.

 


 

5 comments to Practice safe phone sex – tips for healthy phone fun from Mistress Iris

  • sally4iris

    Mistress Iris is a very thoughtful and caring Mistress. Please read her comments and pay attention. Please take it from a very filthy,naughty,naughty sissy who has overindulged in Mistress Iris and then ran away from her. Only to come to the realization that i am indeed a sissy that needs her guidance and training. i have learned that i need to take things slow and further develope my relationship with my Mistress. Although i have to earn her trust back, she has giving me a chance to do so. i am ready Mistress.

    • :) You are such a fun little plaything, slutty sally. I am glad you have returned from the land of manly non-sense and acknowledged your true sissy nature. I am not sure you OD’d on Mistress so much as you overindulged in your various perverted desires, but I will try to pace you and manage you as you focus on pleasing me and serving me and proving that you deserve my attention once again. Welcome back!

  • sally4iris

    Thank you Mistress.
    i am a sissy slut. i belong to Miss Iris

  • Forrest Hicks

    What a wonderful, thoughtful post Ms Iris. This is something that anyone who has or is intending on calling a phone sex line should read.

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