The Power of “No”: Why You Crave Denial – Observations from an orgasm denial phone sex Mistress

 

Miss Iris is a shameless teaseWe all have trouble saying “no” to our urges from time to time.  And most powerful people have trouble finding supportive friends and staff who are willing to be honest with them and say “no” to them when they need to hear it.  Because the word “no” is confrontational.  “No” means we are not going to take the easy route.  “No” means someone is willing to buck the flow and stand firm.  And that is increasingly rare in our modern media age where we are all spoon fed the same opinions and marketing firms teach us to be agreeable lemmings.  “No” has become a rarity.  “No” has become a luxury.  A premium.

“Yes” is available everywhere, all the time.  You can ALWAYS find someone to tell you yes, just do it, whatever you want, you deserve it.  Finding a strong woman to tell you “no” is a rare pleasure, isn’t it?  A woman who will tell you “no” when you need to hear it, not just when you want to hear it.  That is a gift.

You crave denial because you know life has been too easy for you.  Orgasms come to easily.  They are forgotten moments after you clean up your mess.  The pleasure barely registers any more.  You want something more meaningful, more memorable.  You want to earn it.  You want to really feel pleasure again.  You want all-consuming pleasure, don’t you?  You crave orgasm denial because you know that limits and balance will add to your pleasure.  Mindlessly beating off just does not fulfill you, does it?

Remember when you were 18 years old?  Remember that constant level of eroticism?  How every little thing could turn you on?  How the whole world seemed sexy?  You can have that level of passion again when I deny you.  When you give up control of your orgasms and allow me to guide and train you.  When you are left longing and hoping and wondering if / when I might grant you release.  You can feel like a horny kid again when you obey me and follow my rules.


 

6 comments to The Power of “No”: Why You Crave Denial – Observations from an orgasm denial phone sex Mistress

  • W

    No is so much better, sexier. When she says “No”, I know that she is interested in keeping me in that awesome place. Yes is cool sometimes when you don’t expect it, because it’s still her decision and you
    know that you’ve earned hearing her say “Yes”.

  • Thanks for sharing your feedback, W. :) I share your sentiments.

  • IrisPet

    Loved this article! What I think is also special about denial is the fact that the one being denied has no self rights. Some men have a craving to be controlled, and orgasm denial is the ultimate form of control. Very similar to denying a child from going to the bathroom. My wish is to have Mistress Iris control all my urges!

    • Hi IrisPet, I agree that orgasm denial is a fabulous form of control. But I think all successful Dom-sub relationships involve two parties that negotiate together. I will never agree to take control of all your urges until you earn my trust and show that you understand what you are asking of me. I look forward to getting to know you well enough to collar you one day, though, pet. You are an amusing little thing.

  • Vanessa

    Mistress, usally when a woman tells a guy No! That means there is going to be no relationship! But, for some reason when you say NO, I feel closer and more fortunate! You manage to keep things interesting enough, I have stayed true, to you! Thank you! However, I really could use some of your expert attention, about now!

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